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Two Siblings, One Vision: How the Grillot Duo Transformed a Community

Two Siblings, One Vision: How the Grillot Duo Transformed a Community
Grillot Siblings
Paula and “Bulldog Mike” Grillot

In the heart of idyllic Asheville, North Carolina, there's a university that's not just about books and lectures; it's a place where the spirit of community and the magic of generosity come alive. The story of Mike and Paula Grillot, a dynamic brother-sister duo deeply devoted to UNC Asheville, is a tale that illustrates how personal journeys can become integral threads in the fabric of education and community betterment. Their adventure unveils the incredible power of philanthropy and the unbreakable bond between siblings.

By wisely harnessing a portion of their required minimum distribution (RMD) for philanthropic funding annually, the Grillot siblings have contributed to scholarships and athletics, unwavering in their commitment to nurturing growth in various realms, while also receiving valuable tax benefits. This financial strategy not only amplifies their charitable efforts but also serves as a practical example of how thoughtful planning can further magnify the impact of giving. Paula and Mike's charitable efforts create a symphony of generosity, echoing their dedication to fostering learning, innovation, and a sense of community within the university's embrace.

It all started when Paula Grillot and her partner Jim Topp 92' arrived in Asheville with a vision that transcended mere financial investments, aiming to foster meaningful community and heartfelt connection. Immersed in a town rich in knowledge and culture, they found a home at UNC Asheville, with Jim pursuing a Master of Liberal Arts and Paula deeply involved in community endeavors, setting the stage for their enduring legacy. Jim's passion for poetry led to the creation of a scholarship, and Paula continued their philanthropic legacy by establishing the Grillot Family Endowed Scholarship to make education accessible for all.

Then came Paula's brother, Mike Grillot, arriving in 2010, driven by a thirst for academic and community engagement. Starting humbly with a basketball season ticket, his journey swiftly evolved, immersing himself in UNC Asheville's Osher Lifelong Learning Institute (OLLI). The university became a crucible for intellectual growth and personal transformation in his life. Known affectionately as "Bulldog Mike" for his earnest support and attendance at UNC Asheville athletic events, he has become a fixture at games and a symbol of unwavering support. But Mike's influence stretched far beyond sports; he passionately fostered community connections, participating in and recently facilitating a men's group that provides space for others to share their experiences and aspirations. UNC Asheville continues to serve as the backdrop for many of his satisfying conversations and societal reflections, highlighting the profound impact of genuine connections.

Paula and Mike's shared values fostered a sense of kinship, allowing them to enrich lives through various causes while deeply appreciating the privilege of giving back. They have extended their wisdom to those contemplating the path of planned giving. Mike's advice was simple yet potent, "Take that leap; don't wait. Begin with a plan and face the obstacles head-on." Paula echoed the sentiment, underscoring the transformative potential of giving. "Giving isn't just about leaving a financial legacy; it's about sowing the seeds of care, compassion, and positive change that will echo through generations."

In conclusion, the legacy of Mike and Paula Grillot stands as a testimony to the potential of generosity. Their story reminds us that, through intentional action and a commitment to connection, individuals can create an enduring impact. Their narrative inspires us to embrace vulnerability, forge connections, and contribute to a better world. Their legacy is an act of kindness, compassion, and connection that continues to reverberate through the corridors of UNC Asheville and the hearts of all who encounter their story.


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